Oppppss...I did it again!!

    I've not been blogging for a while because I was extremely busy with my life, by the way, I do have one in case you have this misconception that bloggers need to get a life. :) Here I am, early before the sun rised and I am blogging because my brain has too much inside it and I can't find this sweet tiny relaxation mode that we Human beings call as "sleep".

    I won't tell you all details about what happened recently but just the fact that I've realised that you can't actually live your life without having some "nosey" brats poking the noses in places that they shouldn't. Given that I am a hot-tempered guy, I was looking for the them to re-decorate their faces so that next time they think twice before even talking about me or sniffing around like fat-ass rats. But then someone told me to just ignore them and not to tell them anything, that is, don't give them more woods for their grand fire they are lighting but rather give them the cold shoulder treatment or silent treatment if you prefer. 

Crack the Code..Can You?

    

      
      Egocentric...Sarcastic...Narcissistic....These are some of the "ics" that composed my outer personality, which I am going to refer to my outer shell. Nobody can deny the fact that they do not live with their life with only one personality, otherwise the "potential" of being able to think and react to our environment would be totally futile. I've been looked upon by some people as a very bad guy without even knowing me personally and it seems they never came across that famous quote:"never judge a book by its cover", but anyhow even if i do not need to justify myself in front of  them, I just want to write about it as I've too much already to keep inside that brain of mine.


     I am a guy who lives by a set of principles, created out of peer pressure, habits, likes, dislikes and so on but my principles aren't fact-based but rather

New Tagomatic-Me,Myself & I

   Sharing your life on a blog can be nice but it has its side-effects also when people read what you've written and attacked you with it. This is why you shouldn't write everything or anything concerning your private life and this is where I made a mistake. Just recently I've realised that people been reading my other blogs and making judgements about me which for me is totally unacceptable given they do not know me personally.  

   As I am to be blamed, I decided to take down my two other blogs and write on only one which will have nothing concerning personal matters but rather general matters whereby I gained knowledge or experiences which can help you out there to understand life a bit better and this is why I am creating anothing tagomatic which will have as title "Me, Myslef & I". It will contain my coming experiences, lessons I learnt, philosophical aspects that are derived from things that happened to me and so on. Soon enough you will be able to read it and I hope you all will beneficiate from it. 

Cheers

Do we really want it?

There is an old Greek fable which is quite popular among kids around the world; it is about the story of a fox, who tries really hard to get his hands on a tasty vine of grapes. The fox tries and he tries, but eventually he fails in all of his attempts to acquire the grapes; at which point the fox calmly continues with his life by convincing himself that he really didn't want those grapes that badly afterall.

There is a common wisdom in this tale that I want to share with you, that is, how we deal with being thwarted in our desires.

Hilariously Dumb

While lying down on my bed, i remembered an incident that happened around 3 months back on one of my outings among some friends and I smiled at myself. So I thought of sharing it with you, maybe it will help bring some smiles to some faces out there.

It was during one of my escapades with my friends, we went to a sea-side here in Malaysia. I was swimming with my friends cracking jokes and so on when I noticed a girl at about 3 metres from me and she was around 20 years old looking lost and searching panicly around her. As you know, I am a gentleman in disguise so I approached her and seeing me coming near... Here is where the hilarious part started:


She: "Adik blablablabalabla...."speaking in malay"...


Me: "Kak I do not speak malay, Can you pls speak in english?"

Emptiness

 “Courageous - that’s how you see me; Successfull - that’s how you belive in me; happy - that’s what you expect of me; But...Emptiness - that’s what is inside of me.”

I don't know how common this is, but for me, the main problem is that I feel
disconnected from everyone and everything.

I have a few people out there who I care about, or who care about me, but no real
intimacy with anyone. Worse yet, this is a long term pattern with me, it's been going on
for enough years yet that it's quite possible I will be alone for the rest of my life.