Do we really want it?

There is an old Greek fable which is quite popular among kids around the world; it is about the story of a fox, who tries really hard to get his hands on a tasty vine of grapes. The fox tries and he tries, but eventually he fails in all of his attempts to acquire the grapes; at which point the fox calmly continues with his life by convincing himself that he really didn't want those grapes that badly afterall.

There is a common wisdom in this tale that I want to share with you, that is, how we deal with being thwarted in our desires.

Hilariously Dumb

While lying down on my bed, i remembered an incident that happened around 3 months back on one of my outings among some friends and I smiled at myself. So I thought of sharing it with you, maybe it will help bring some smiles to some faces out there.

It was during one of my escapades with my friends, we went to a sea-side here in Malaysia. I was swimming with my friends cracking jokes and so on when I noticed a girl at about 3 metres from me and she was around 20 years old looking lost and searching panicly around her. As you know, I am a gentleman in disguise so I approached her and seeing me coming near... Here is where the hilarious part started:


She: "Adik blablablabalabla...."speaking in malay"...


Me: "Kak I do not speak malay, Can you pls speak in english?"

Emptiness

 “Courageous - that’s how you see me; Successfull - that’s how you belive in me; happy - that’s what you expect of me; But...Emptiness - that’s what is inside of me.”

I don't know how common this is, but for me, the main problem is that I feel
disconnected from everyone and everything.

I have a few people out there who I care about, or who care about me, but no real
intimacy with anyone. Worse yet, this is a long term pattern with me, it's been going on
for enough years yet that it's quite possible I will be alone for the rest of my life.

Love? Or Being In Love?

The Experience Of Being In Love Is Not Love At All

Lots of couples end up in the marriage therapist’s office every day. But hardly ever does someone end up there who actually understands what love is. In fact, I would go so far as to say that it is rare for anyone to ever end up in any therapist’s office who actually understands what love is.

There is within each of us an inherent desire to love and to be loved. But if we are ignorant as to what actually constitutes love, then how will we ever hope to know whether what is happening between us and another person is actually love?

People Are Stupid

People Are Stupid

 By Mr LifeSucks :)

If you ask people why they do the things they do in life, they will give you sensible

sounding reasons which seem to explain their decisions. We like to believe that we

exercise sound judgement, especially in the important decisions of our lives. I think that this is rarely true. I think that standard operating procedure for human decision making is to do what feels right to you at the time, and then to give logical sounding justifications for what you were already going to do anyway, whether you had

justifications or not.

Cut The Crap!!!

      Hi people, I didn't blog for a long time because I've choosen not to :) but I am back now, so sit back and let me talk you into some nonsenses,ok? Ready? Here we go...   

     Remember when you are extremly hungry, and you have not eaten for a long time, the only feeling you feel is hunger and the only thing you are looking forward to is "FOOD". This keeps you motivated to keep going, no matter how frustrating that can be as you have something you are looking forward to. On the other hand, you have just eaten food soo much and you are so full that you can not even walk properly, at that moment if someone will present you with a nice hot plate of your favourite food, you will not be able to take, you might even puke as you have more than enough
 of it.