Do We have what we need the most in a relationship?

How ironic life can be sometimes, just came out of a meeting with some business surveys hot chicks which went pretty well and I came here sitting alone in the darkness of my room letting my mind wandering about how this world is evolving, why do we need relationships to keep our human side alive.. Guess it will always remain a mystery. Loads among you must be watching the series "Dirty Sexy Money", if not, do a must to watch it, you will understand why I am saying so if you know how to read between the lines of the script.

Anyhow I've just been staring at one its' episodes while my mind wandering around, when I suddenly came back to earth when I heard some wonderful sayings out of that episode which I'll try to reproduce from what I understood.

Whenever we fall in love, or get involve with someone romantically, there are some of sidelines that we usually look for willingly & even unwillingly as they are engraved in the human instinct of survival. Since long time ago, it is known as the mystery of a relationship, we human beings, we look for mainly 2 letters starting by "C' which I'll try to brief from what I understood and feel part of.

1. First of all, there is "Confirmation", lovers provide confirmation for each other, that is, when a person sees a shooting star or an aurora, then they need to have someone to turn to all the time, to whom to which to say: "did you see that? Did that really happen?" And in a life that is full of amazing moments, it is important to have…."confirmation"…


 “When we hear news we should always wait for the sacrament of confirmation”

2. Secondly there is "Consolation", lovers provide consolation for each other when bad luck, death or… even the simple sadness of the passing beauty becomes hard to make it go on, then you have someone to turn to for a hand, for an embrace, for a kiss, for….."consolation".

“For it is the suffering flesh, it is suffering, it is death, that lovers perpetuate upon the earth. Love is at once the brother, son, and father of death, which is its sister, mother, and daughter. And thus it is that in the depth of love there is a depth of eternal despair, out of which springs hope and consolation.”

3. The last but not the least, there is "Joy", *Chuckles* it is not a "C" word, but then, what the heck… life and love is surprising most of the time.

“Though he turned the pages with the sensuous joy of the book-lover, he did not know what he was reading, and one book after another dropped from his hand. Suddenly, among them, he lit on a small volume of verse which he had ordered because the name had attracted him: "The House of Life." He took it up, and found himself plunged in an atmosphere unlike any he had ever breathed in books; so warm, so rich, and yet so tender, that it gave a new and haunting beauty to the most elementary of human passions.”


I hope you will recognize your true quests when you will read it, as a bit of wisdom and reality is a very good cocktail sometimes to boost up a roller coasting life..