Let's not complicate life too much...

Hola peepz,

            its been a very long time, nearly one month since I blogged the last time, well I've been very busy with different university based programs and other stuffs that I got entangled in. Life has been good to me and what about you guys?! A new semester has just begun and I've been stuck doing manual registration and changing my program from Islamic Revealed Knowlegde to Human sciences which luckily I've been able to yesterday and trust me, this week has been a hell of a week and a real pain in the butt and I'm happy its over.

I've finally decided to go to gym regularly, time to boost up these muscles and I've joined the japanese martial art Aikido, don't ask me why I did so. Maybe I thought it was good enough to waste my time on :). Nah in fact I'm just looking for stuffs to fill up my schedule given that having free time makes me feel bored and I don't want to be bored, rather I'm fedup of it! 

But there is another thing that is right now nagging me, all my classes starting at 8a.m and given that I can't sleep before 4a.m, it is very difficult for me to wake up even though I've put 16 alarms on two different mobiles, I managed to oversleep for the past two days missing the morning classes. It is as if am fighting a real world war 4 with myself every morning, but guess I need to look for another remedy for that yaay!! Insha Allah I'll try to be serious for the coming months and we'll see where I'll ended in November and yup I'll strive to get all As this semester so you all pray for me. Thanks

I take your leave now, as I feel the sleep coming to bug me again, so i'll go take a walk around campus =)

Take care and be safe.. Talk to you all soon! :)

Best Birthday Wish I got + The Coating Picture! =)

     I decided to post  one of the many wishes I liked when I check my inbox saturday night and the most funny part of it was the picture that goes with it. Thank you very much to Anna for this aweful picture, damn I didn't know you actually got some real problems in choosing pictures! haha but anyway the effort is very much appreciated! TQ a lot, here it goes:

Instead of counting candles,

Or tallying the years,

Contemplate your blessings now,

As your birthday nears.

Consider special people

Who love you, and who care,

And others who’ve enriched your life

Just by being there.

Think about the memories

Passing years can never mar,

Experiences great and small

That have made you who you are.

Another year is a happy gift,

So cut your cake, and say,

"Instead of counting birthdays,

I count blessings every day!"

The Milestone of 21 is over...

              Hey pals, how are you all keeping? I hope just as great as I am doing, well I'm seizing some free times between class to blog a bit given that I really do not have anything interesting to do. As most of you all must know that last saturday[6th June] was my birthday, yea yea am Gemini, and thank you very much for those sarcastic emails, I really do appreciate the wishes. So where was i? Yup finally I've move up the milestone of 21 to 22 years old and you will be surprise to hear that, it still sucks! lol

              I really do not know what I am doing in this university, it is extremely boring and nothing interesting every happen here except that you can catch some gay couples doing themselves in the room. Anyhow I really miss my previous university where life was rocking, all these illegal races, night life were amazing. You feel like you are living and have an aim to look forward everyday, that is, breaking the hostel's curfew and party till the morning! haha, I think since our gang got dispelled after those problems, I am planning to do a get-together soon, either in Malaysia or Dubai, so please princes & princesses of chaos, please contact me if you will be able to make it. I am very much sure that Feisal won't be able to make it as his wife is expecting but what the heck, we'll enjoy on his behalf! So guys go quickly to compose email & send your answer to me asap.

              Anyway as I said before, UIA is damn boring and the chicks in here, i.e, most of them.. Gosh gimme a break!!! lol most of them think they are the centre of the world, and I've not met anyone yet who goes to the criterias the chaotic gang looks for... Well yea maybe I met one, just recently, I knew her from before, but not on personal basis, it was just through the "window shopping" that guys do with their eyes...hehe lol no more comments about that! I'm looking forward to know her more soon, because she seemed quite chaotically eligible! haha and on top of that, she's awesomely weird and guess what? I liiiiikeee!!! :P

              So pals, guess the time isn't passing as quick as it was supposed to be, and I have got still 2hours to go, so I'll take your leave, got some other blogs to update. Ciau and live on till we meet again.

Sayonara :)

Why Best Friends Are Better Than BF/GF!??

1. You don’t have to call them every day, just to let them know you’re not fighting


2. You don’t have an anniversary–you just sort of “became” best friends.


3. When someone calls your girlfriend/boyfriend your “partner” it makes you think of marriage. When they call your best friend your partner, it’s more like cops.


4. You never have to touch your best friend when it’s hot outside, but you can still huddle close when it’s freezing.


5. Your parents usually like your best friend.


6. Your best friend doesn’t care if you get fat, you’re ugly, or if you get a bard haircut.


7. You don’t have to get jealous of “girls only” night or “guys only” night — You’re part of it!


8. You can laugh at your best friend with no consequences.


9. You can burp/fart in front of your best friend on any occasion.


10. You can plan on still having a relationship with your best friend in 20 years.


11. Never in your life will you need “space” from your best friend.


12. Your best friend won’t be mad if you want some time alone, and will only ask you “what’s wrong?” once.


13. Your best friend is someone you get in trouble with; your boyfriend/girlfriend is someone you get in trouble with if you get in trouble.


14. You don’t have to get dressed up to go anywhere with your best friend.


15. You’re allowed to have multiple best friends.


16. No one ever spreads rumors or talks about you and your best friend’s relationship.


17. Borrowing any amount of money from your best friend is okay, no questions asked.


18. Your best friend will never refer to you as “the ball and chain,” “the old lady/man,” or “the whip.”


19. No one is ever trying to fix you up on blind dates for a new best friend.


20. It doesn’t matter what your “other” friends think about your best friend.


21. Your best friend is the first person you call when you get a new boyfriend/girlfriend, and when you break up with them.

Staying in Love...Can You?

      Attraction may not be a choice, but love is. Love is a choice. Its a conscious choice that involves someone getting rid of the clutter in their own mind. As that IS what ends up happening too. Clutter over the other person's insecurities, or bad habits, or odd behaviours, or poor choices, or unattractive qualities, etc. It gets all up there and makes it harder and harder and harder to ever want to continue on loving. Why? Why bother? There's others out there who can meet what I feel is lacking, so why go on?

    It may not be easy, it may be hard, but its a choice you make. You can open up with love or close down and in on yourself. I find that attachment to trivial things is what makes love hard and dissociation what makes love so easy. Why get attached to this world? Why? Everyone knows we don't have the infinite amount of time we'd all like to have and either our actions and choices gets rid of them or nature does. Its a cynical, gruesome way to put it and yet it speaks a lot of truth. That's why at the end of it all, we have the choice to love and its only as hard as you make it.


     Quoting what Nasiha said in her previous email:"I am actually nervous about terms like "falling in/out love", and "true love" to be honest, because I think they are so loaded with emotion and false expectation romantic movie BS, and they are also felt so differently by different people --is so bang on." Well You might be surprise Nasiha but I totally agree with you, it is simply because he respects you for what you are, he accepts you for what you are, he doesnt try to change you to fit what he thinks to be an ideal girl, rather he change his principles to fit you inside, he treats you well, he loves you with his whole heart, he becomes your best friend, talks to you openly. It took me awhile to realize that the girls I had fallen for in the past --- girls who didn't want committment, who treated me just like a sex-machine,who used me --- were not true loves, no matter how much of a rush there was there. Those feelings of true love had the resemblance of movie portraits of romantic love. For me, it was completely unhealthy, and I'm still working on changing my perception of what real love is. I didn't feel quite that same rush with my previous gf, but I'm convinced it's because there was an ease and stability to us right from the beginning, a peacefulness I never had in other relationship. She didn't play games, didn't do whatever she felt she needed to to get me. She just wanted me, right from the start. For me, the rush tended to be there when the drama was there. I've had to learn that love doesn't need drama in order to thrive. Wherever there is a drama, there is something fishy around here, I got to learn it the hard way and it is engraved in my mind, heart and soul.

    Sorry I'm rambling, I think I've gone off topic. I just wanted to put in my 2 cents concerning that and another aspect that people has a strong misconception is infatuation. I'm glad Michael brought up infatuation. Because many usually mix this up with true love. I don't like saying "I'm falling in love" because I view love as a clearheaded, rational thing. In love is truth, understanding, respect, etc. Love is not obsessiveness; love is not a lack of self respect, nor a lack of self altogether. One must truly love their own self, before they can truly love others. Not in a total selfish way, of course. Selfishness is a lack of regard for others, while concentrating solely on your own wants above others. Loving yourself is respecting yourself, caring about yourself, understanding yourself. If you do this, you're in a good place to then share yourself with others.

Falling is a mistake. Walking is done by choice. So, walk in to love someone, over time!

       If you've just met the person, and think you've fallen in love with them, it's most likely infatuation, and not true love. I strongly believe real love is grown over time, like a tree. It needs to be watered, have the Sun shining on it daily. Over time, it'll grow to be mature, rooted and grounded firmly in the soil. True love doesn't come on a whiff like that, it always starts with infatuation and you need to keep working it to see that you really are connected to that person in such a way that she really fills up that emptiness inside you but be careful, do not get commit yourself right now, water it and let the sun shine on it till you are sure and certain in case it is just another drama.

      So be careful friends as there are lots out there who give themselves fully but there are some who are just around here to play poker, and they will come to sweep you off your feet, and turn that ice-hearted of yours, but we shouldn't forget, every relationship that is started on lies and dramas aren't for a long time, it will end up sooner that you expect and you will end up being more hurt as you thought that was where you were moving on with life but instead you've just hit a wall again and you were used again! So Keep yourself focus and think with your head and not that pumping blood mass inside that we call heart as it will always make you end in trouble. Now don't tell me you want trouble to be your soulmate ya?!

 

Have a nice ride pals...

Life compared to a roller coaster

I have never figured out why people will pay thirty-six dollars to get into an amusement park so that they can rides that scare them silly and raise their stress level to the max. Yet, the amusement parks (I find the name a little strange) would go out of business if it didn't have rides that sent your stress level off the chart. We pay, and pay big, to be beat to death in a little cart dropping off a hill and flipping us upside down two or three times stopping just in time for most people to catch their stomach.


On the other hand, let some outside stress come into life, something we didn't pay for, and suddenly the world is coming to an end. Since everyone says we can't have stress, or at least not the kind we don't pay for, then we must have a fix.


"Doctor just give me a vacation, some place warm please." "Can't do that? Well -- maybe a pill? A drink?"


How come we can be so brave and tough on the roller coaster and be so whimsy and whinny when the boss wants the job done by five? Actually, I've done a done a little thinking on this matter (Some of you stop laughing right now!). I think I have come up with four simple reasons why "unpaid for" stress get us down so quickly.


First, life's stress events get us down so easily because we are not expecting them. On the roller coaster you knew when you got to the top of the hill that stress was shortly coming. No one can predict exactly when stressful event in life come but we do know they will. A life that is "prayed up" and in touch with God is prepared when those stress related moments come. God's safety straps of love help you hold on and you of his care. The closer you are to Him the easier it is to hold on.


Next, we doubt or forget the security and safety of the Lord. When some youth from my previous gang talks me into riding one of those silly rides, I do so only because I believe that they are somewhat safe. You would never get anyone, with any sense, to ride one of those things it they thought they might really die. When life sends us through the loop, it is assuring to know God is with you all the way. We get stressed out when we forget that we can depend on the security and protection of the Lord.


Another reason the amusement ride is fun and normal everyday stress events drain us is because we lose sight of the end. No matter how high the hill, no matter how fast the ride, no matter how many loops, the roller coaster ride has the glorious end when you can stop and get out. The knowledge that there is an end has helped me through many a tough ride in life. Focus of the simple truth that what every event has an end.

Lastly, but perhaps the single greatest reason we get stressed in everyday life but survive and enjoy the stress of riding "The Wild Thing," is our mindset. We go to an amusement park with the full intention of riding the rides for the thrill of it. We make it fun (Okay some of us do). When we view life with the mindset that this is going to be fun, suddenly stressful events aren't any more that a roller coaster ride.

Hang on tight and enjoy the ride!